Little V a g r a n c i e s

27. Artist. Bodyworker. Feminist. Backpacker. Urban Homesteader. Chicago.


“Tell me what happens the first time you see a woman naked.”

“The first time you see a woman naked will not be like you imagined. There will be no love, no trust, no intimacy. You won’t even be in the same room as her.

You won’t get to smile as she undresses you and you undress her. You won’t get to calm her nerves with nerves of your own. You won’t get to kiss her, feeling her lips and the edge of her tongue. You won’t get to brush your fingers over the lace of her bra or count her ribs or feel her heartbeat.

The first time you see a woman naked you will be sitting in front of a computer screen watching someone play at intimacy and perform at sex. She will contort her body to please everyone in the room but her. You will watch this woman who is not a woman, pixelated and filtered and customized. She will come ready-made, like an order at a restaurant. The man on the screen will be bigger than you, rougher than you. He will teach you how to talk to her. He will teach you where to put your hands and he will teach you what you’re supposed to like. He will teach you to take what is yours.

You must unlearn this. You must unlearn this twisted sense of love. You must unlearn the definition of pleasure and intimacy you are being taught. Kill this idea of love, this idea of entitlement, this way of scarring one another.”

—   (via typewriterdaily)

(via oldfellingaxe)

To do list

Need: blue igloo cooler
Sharp knife, large
Rubber gloves
New, labelled pestle

Clean dehydrator

No, you don’t want to know why.

(Source: imnotwordy, via thatkindofwoman)

Lady hands

Help help

I’ve lost my sense of purpose in life and I cant find it

“They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for.”

—   Tom Bodett (via mrsclarkkent)

(Source: quotethat, via agentlewoman)

Gosh, story of my life right now. Get a dang grip.

Wish me luck.

I have an interveiw at a wellness center today.

New handmade coffee mugs that i love

“There is a wolf in me … fangs pointed for tearing gashes … a red tongue for raw meat … and the hot lapping of blood—I keep this wolf because the wilderness gave it to me and the wilderness will not let it go.”

—   Carl Sandburg, Wilderness  (via thatkindofwoman)

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Sunday sessions.


Sunday sessions.

(Source: blanchies, via womaninthewoods)